tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8240076.post114015241423980194..comments2007-04-16T05:35:07.240-07:00Matthewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01339469503900069384noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8240076.post-1140639938911008622006-02-22T12:25:00.000-08:002006-02-22T12:25:00.000-08:00My first question is, why didn't you tip the bartender when you received your drinks ?<BR/><BR/>It is the culture and the norm in this country to give a tip to the bartender every time an alcoholic drink is dispensed and paid for. That is how it is, and how it always has been for as long as I can remember. I don't know of anyone who tips at the end of the night. Those who tip will do so at the time that the drink it paid for. So I'm not sure of the rationale behind the withholding here. One rebellious person will not change a complete cultural norm, especially one that is, by nature, a kind, generous, and positive thing to do.<BR/><BR/>There are times when giving a small tip, or none at all, is understandable. Poor service, rude comments, multiple errors - all are situations where one can choose to withhold or reduce the tip amount accordingly. I don't dispute that. However, it is my belief that deliberately withholding a tip for any other reason, especially when the person performing the service did an adequate job, is unnecessarily malicious.<BR/><BR/>I agree with you there are times when the expectations of a tip are significantly out of line. It is not required or expected to shell out cash to every ice cream shop tip jar. I'll get my own towel in the club bathroom, thank you. The driver of the bus at the airport doesn't necessarily warrant a tip, but he will get one if he helps me load and unload my heavy, awkward bags. Either way, I am aware that it is a simple matter of courtesy for a fellow human being who is working hard to help me out. <BR/><BR/>Let's face it, being in public service of any kind is difficult work. It amazes me how workers in that industry can find it possible to put on a smile and give courteous and helpful service when faced with the multitude of customers taking out their misplaced frustrations and personal agendas on them. The bartender who berated you out loud will likely not last in that job much longer. A much thicker skin is required for someone in that type of position. But there are many more, unlike him, who face these situations on a daily basis, and who still treat everyone with respect. They deserve to be rewarded for that.<BR/><BR/>Those who work in the service industry are just like the rest of us; working hard to put food on the table and a roof over their heads. Only a scant few do not perform their duties adequately and with respect; the vast majority are well deserving of the accepted practice of giving a tip. To choose not to do so is one's right, but is also rude, arrogant and disrespectful to that person, that human being on the other side of the counter.<BR/><BR/>So Matthew, to answer your question, yes, tipping is mandatory. So please do it. If not always, at least when you're with me. Ok ?<BR/><BR/>Otherwise, feel free to stay at home and pour your own drinks. But that's not as much fun.Andreahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08907880694515475116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8240076.post-1140315209442779882006-02-18T18:13:00.000-08:002006-02-18T18:13:00.000-08:00Hi, a nice blog you have here. You will surely get an bookmark :) <A HREF="http://sallyw.blogspot.com" REL="nofollow">phentermine</A>ass2006http://www.blogger.com/profile/13437864200106697631noreply@blogger.com